Teenage Drama Queen

The Reality of Teenage Suicide

What would your reaction be if you found out that one of your friends just committed suicide? Would you be shocked? Cry out loud? Or would you just shrug it off? The most natural reaction would be to weep and after reality will sink in one would surely want to hit himself for not noticing the signs, warning signs that were much too obvious to notice.

Teenage suicide, as what they say, is the self-killing of a teenager. And the most alarming thing is that it’s the second leading cause of death among teenagers. We can’t actually say that it’s rare because we have read it in the newspapers, saw it on the television and even heard it from other people.

Some say that it is often difficult to identify teenagers who are contemplating suicide partly because teenagers in particular are often reluctant to reveal the problems they are experiencing or their inner thoughts. Unfortunately many teens also conceal their inner pains and fears so that even their parents and closest friends have no idea that they are suffering and considering suicide. But remember, while it is not always possible to recognize the signs of suicidal tendencies or preventing a teenager to commit suicide, knowledge of the causes and factors of suicide can be a huge help.

There are several different warning signs for friends and family members to look out to. The different warning signs of a possible suicide include a previous attempt, depression, talking about death, withdrawal from friends and increased risk taking. Sometimes the signs are too normal to notice but observing can make a difference.

The causes, however, are much too plenty. It can be family disruption, depression, unwanted pregnancy, rejection, bullying from others, escape, a terrible loss, guilt, seeking for attention, manipulation from others, revenge, impulsiveness or maybe expression of love. Lack of parental interest in their teenage children may be considered a factor in teenage suicide: according to one study 90 percent of suicidal teenagers believed their families did not understand them.

How do we able to respond to the problem of suicide? Be a friend and act like a friend. Don’t just listen, act something. Their future depends on you. You don’t want to carry the burden of guilt, do you? Listen carefully, sensitively, patiently—and take no chances. You can help your friend seek for professional help. Getting help may involve contacting a family physician or taking the young person to a local hospital, calling a suicide crisis center or hotline, involving the local mental health or children’s service agencies, or consulting a professional Christian psychologist or psychiatrist. Prayers are also included; nothing is more powerful than the Lord’s help. Whatever it takes: GET HELP.

The road to recovery will not be easy. The road can be pretty bumpy but just hold on; everything will be all worth it. Help them realize that life’s too short and too precious to just end it right away. Help them grasp the truth, that reality does hurt but its all part of life’s existence, that without these problems, we cannot be a much greater person.

With you suicide survivors can create a brand new life, a life full of meaning and appreciation for the things existing around them. Life is created by God alone, He’s the one who created us and He’s also the only one who has the right to take life away.

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Well, that was my effin entry for the essay writing contest. Yeah I know it sucks so please, don't criticize me... I'm so effin full of it. xoxo